{"id":270,"date":"2014-02-16T16:26:42","date_gmt":"2014-02-16T16:26:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.blancevents.ca\/blog\/?p=270"},"modified":"2014-02-16T16:26:42","modified_gmt":"2014-02-16T16:26:42","slug":"whats-up-with-bachelor-parties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.blancevents.ca\/blog\/whats-up-with-bachelor-parties\/","title":{"rendered":"What’s up with Bachelor Parties????"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I was awoken this morning at 6 am by my intoxicated stinky incoherent fianc\u00e9 who was just getting home from his bachelor party. What is it about bachelor parties that make most girls crazy???? Let me tell you. No matter how much you trust your husband-to-be (and seriously I trust Jason more than anything), the part that is most frustrating about these events is that it\u2019s like a secret service<\/em>.\u00a0 Girls can\u2019t ask questions about it and guys won\u2019t open their mouths about it. I mean\u2026.wtf? \u00a0<\/p>\n

I\u2019m awake this morning writing this blog while I listen to him snore away and smell him sweat out the remaining booze from his pores and I\u2019m thinking many different things: \u201cWhere did he go?\u201d What did he do?\u201d \u201cHow is he possibly still intoxicated at 6 am if bars stop serving booze at 3 am?\u201d \u201cAfter eating a huge meal and being a BIG MAN, how much did he have to drink to\u00a0get to\u00a0this point?\u201d \u00a0\u201cWho were the last men standing?\u201d Woman think of\u00a0these things (at least I think most of us do) and they could make us crazy!<\/p>\n

I \u00a0played the \u2018nice wife-to-be\u2019 and avoided asking all of these questions at 6 am, and basically gave him a kiss, fed him some water & advil, helped him remove his clothing and put him to bed\u2026no words exchanged.<\/p>\n

That being said, it\u2019s now 11 am, it\u2019s my birthday morning, we have a wedding in a week and it\u2019s almost time he gets up & gets into gear.<\/p>\n

Lol.\u00a0 \u00a0I sound like a crazie.<\/p>\n

To be perfectly honest, I am just really happy he made it home ok and that his beautiful face is still in good condition (no joke \u2013 I once planned a wedding for a groom who got into a fight at his bachelor party and literally had a black eye on his wedding day).\u00a0 I know my fianc\u00e9 so well, what he likes, what turns him on, what kind of buzz he will get when he drinks different types of booze and generally how he would react to different things. And one thing I know and LOVE about him is the respect, commitment and loyalty he has towards the woman he loves. This doesn\u2019t mean he has been this way his whole life because I know better than any that Jason has his playboy days.<\/p>\n

The point of this blog was not to bash bachelor parties but to share with any future grooms reading this a few points of advice:<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 the day of your bachelor party make sure you are on great terms with your fianc\u00e9e and that you shower her with love.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 send ONE (don\u2019t start a convo) text message during the night saying something like \u2018just want you to know I love you and can\u2019t wait to marry you\u2019<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 when you get home, pretend you\u00a0 are in top shape and it was just another boys\u2019 night out<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 give your fianc\u00e9e just a few details to satisfy her (we had this\u2026., we went here…, I drank this\u2026., so and so was there, \u2026)<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 don\u2019t throw any of your boys under the bus (because god knows we may never trust that guy again)<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 the day after your bachelor party make sure you are on great terms with your fianc\u00e9e and that you shower her with love (especially if it\u2019s her birthday!)<\/p>\n

Quick Shout Out to Rib n Reef Restaurant where Jason spent a portion of his night last night\u2026..I know the owner Peter Katsoudas took great care of them. This restaurant is the perfect place for a bachelor party dinner\u2026\u2026great cuts of meat, cigars, scotches, musky scents in the air,\u00a0 beautiful wooden d\u00e9cor, incredible service\u2026what more could a man\u00a0ask for?<\/p>\n

On another note, I had two amazing back-to-back bachelorette weekends with my favorite-lady friends. I won\u2019t reveal too many details (why should we???) but all I can say is that it included a few days in Miami, lots of champagne, tequila shots, amazing girlfriends, dancing to some great hip hop, a red Camaro, delicious food at Atelier Franca Mazza, penile \u2013everything (cookies, wands, necklaces, cutlery?),\u00a0 a 15-pax Navigator limo and lots of laughs. Both weekends were perfect in my opinion \u2026.nothing exaggerated, no scandals, no massive hangovers, and not too much cheesiness.\u00a0 I may sound boring but when you are 33 years old and you plan parties for a living\u2026.a glass of wine and good friends is all I need.<\/p>\n

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Time to wake up the beast\u2026.<\/p>\n

6 more days!!!!!!!!!!!!<\/p>\n

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TANIA<\/p>\n

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Rib n\u2019 Reef: www.ribnreef<\/b>.com\/<\/a><\/i>\u200e<\/a><\/p>\n

Franca Mazza Atelier: www.francamazza<\/b>.com<\/i><\/p>\n

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